May. 4th, 2014

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Kink-Compatibility Program

A while back, I was looking for a means to establish compatibility with partners I was meeting in the scene. I wanted something that I could fill out with another person, that would assess our likelihood of being good partners, and which areas we were closely matched in interest.

I took this idea to forgottenfool, a Dominant partner of mine at the time, and gave him a list of what I wanted included. He, being much better at Excel than I, formulated a program that was simple, yet effective in working out kink-compatiability between two partners.

The first photo is of some of my answers to the program. The second photo is a section of the results between forgottenfool and I. We run at about a 76% compatibility. The program, without any further listed kinks and with all kinks answered, takes off 0.10% off this compatibility rating for each deviation from each other’s answers. Questions not answered are not counted towards this number.

This makes sense, even though we tend to be good partners—he has a much higher interest in rope and bondage than I do, and I have a higher interest in things like certain kinds of roleplay or blood-play. This program, however, lets us examine the areas where we match (or don’t!) and discuss our thoughts on these subjects.

I have found this program to be very useful, and I use it with every partner I consider serious relationships with, and many others if we’re going to be playing casually. It’s faster than undirected communication, and I have decided to share it with you all to download and use with your partners.

Available for download here.

xx SF

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There was a lot of talk today about the media’s failed coverage [read: non-coverage] of the 234 Nigerian girls, thus came the #234WhiteGirls hashtag.

No, none of us wants any white girls to go missing. We just want these Nigerian girls to get the same amount of coverage that white girls get (or would get), because EVERY girl matters.

#BRINGBACKOURGIRLS

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Wolves fighting for dominance as a “thing” came from observation of captive packs.  Observation of genuinely wild packs has revealed that it is not, in fact, a “thing.”

Y’hear that, ya dumbass modern werewolf writers?

hear that, self-styled “alpha males”?

They weren’t even captive packs, they were a bunch of unrelated wolves shoved together in too-small a space.

So if you’re an ‘alpha wolf’ then you are, in point of fact, not the noble, fierce and imposing leader of a group who respects you, but a scared wild creature with no social support frantically lashing out at strangers to try and gain some semblance of control over a fundamentally uncontrollable environment?

Huh.

That would explain a few things.

Yep! I took a course on animal behavior, and found out there is no quicker way to make a zoologist roll their eyes than saying “alpha wolf.” 

actually, this makes derek hale make even MORE sense tbh.

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WHY IS THIS BUNNY WEARING A BACKPACK? WHERE IS HE GOING TO GO? WHAT DOES HE HAVE IN THIS BACKPACK?

it’s his 1st day of school wish him luck

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OMG! Thank you so much! This is so kind! :D :D

It’s also super true. I didn’t write it, but I could’ve.

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