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shamelessly_mkp) wrote2012-05-14 02:41 am
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BABY KINKSTERS: IT'S A CONTRACT!
Contract
Kurt Hummel:
I, Kurt Hummel, do, of my own free will, enter into contract with Blaine Anderson that as of (date) I will act as a Dominant for Blaine. As such, I take responsibility for assuring Blaine's health and well being, both physically and otherwise. I will always respect Blaine's safeword(s) and will endeavor to ensure Blaine never needs to use them. I will provide structure for Blaine in the form of choosing his daily clothes and in a set list of regular chores for Blaine to complete. I will provide discipline for Blaine as necessary, always doing so in consideration of Blaine's needs. I will provide a safe environment for Blaine to express his submission and always treat his submission as the gift it is.
(Signed Kurt Hummel)
Blaine Anderson:
I, Blaine Anderson, do, of my own free will, enter into contract with Kurt Hummel that as of (date), I will act as submissive to Kurt. As such, I agree to give Kurt control over and responsibility for certain aspects of my life, as specified in the rest of the contract. I will respect Kurt, myself, our relationship, and this contract, at all times. I will allow Kurt to discipline me as he considers necessary, knowing that any correction given is given for my sake. I will use my safeword(s) if necessary and will communicate my needs and desires to Kurt at all times. I will remember that my submission is a gift and that allowing myself to express my submission is a sign of strength, not weakness.
(Signed Blaine Anderson)
Expectations:
for Blaine
1) By wearing his collar (or in public, a bowtie), Blaine consents to being Kurt's. As such, he will obey any orders Kurt may give (including standing orders and orders not given in person) unless doing so may cause him harm. If he cannot obey an order, he should communicate this and the reason why to Kurt as soon as possible. There will be no repercussions for not following an order due to circumstances beyond Blaine's control.
2) If while wearing his collar (or in public, a bowtie), Blaine disobeys an order of Kurt's (including standing orders and orders not given in person) for any other reason, i.e., not because obedience could cause him harm, Blaine will be punished in whatever manner Kurt sees fit (drawing from the negotiated acceptable punishments).
3) If Blaine is unable to submit, for whatever reason, including his state of mind, he will remove his collar (or in public, a bowtie). This action means he is unable to act as Kurt's submissive at said time, and Kurt will always respect that. During that time period, the general rules of this contract do not apply.
4) If, during play or punishment, Blaine finds himself needing to pause or to discuss something with Kurt, he will use the safeword "yellow." When this safeword is used, play or punishment will be paused and will not resume until the issue has been discussed and both parties feel comfortable with moving forward. Failure to use his safeword when needed will result in punishment.
5) If, during play or punishment, Blaine finds himself needing to stop, for whatever reason, he will use the safeword "red." When this safeword is used, play or punishment will be stopped and will not resume. If this safeword is used during a punishment, Kurt may, after a waiting period of 24 hours and discussion with Blaine, implement a different punishment as consequence for the original error. Failure to use his safeword when needed will result in punishment.
6) If, at any point, Blaine feels that his needs and/or wants are not being met in this relationship, he may A) remove his collar and with Kurt, review and revise this contract to the satisfaction of both parties, or B) remove his collar and return it to Kurt. By returning the collar to Kurt, Blaine ends the d/s relationship and this contract is null and void. Unless desired, end of the d/s relationship will not signify the end of Kurt and Blaine's romantic relationship.
for Kurt
1) Kurt will always respect Blaine's safeword(s). He will also always respect the removal of Blaine's collar, and will not seek to dominate Blaine when Blaine is not wearing his collar.
2) Kurt will always make Blaine's health and well-being his priority.
3) Kurt will provide structure for Blaine in the form of choosing his daily clothes and in a set list of regular chores for Blaine to complete.
4) Kurt will provide a safe environment for Blaine to express his submission and always treat his submission as the gift it is.
5) When Blaine has done something wrong, Kurt will, as soon as possible, clearly communicate to Blaine what error he has committed, why it deserves punishment, and discipline Blaine as he sees fit (using the jointly-created list of acceptable punishments). After punishment, the transgression, whatever it was, is forgiven, and Kurt will not further punish Blaine for it in any way, shape, or form.
6) If, at any point, Kurt feels that his needs and/or wants are not being met in this relationship, he may ask Blaine to remove his collar and with Kurt review and revise this contract to the satisfaction of both parties. Kurt may not end the d/s relationship unless continuance of said relationship will cause harm to his health or well-being, a hard limit is violated, or he also wishes to dissolve the romantic relationship.
for both parties
1) Kurt and Blaine will respect one another and themselves. They will pay attention to and clearly communicate to one another their needs, wants, and issues, whatever they may be.
2) Kurt and Blaine will respect this contract and the rules they have agreed to.
Limits
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Re:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c6M_6qOz-yw