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wordplaying:
The people you want to keep in your life are the people you can say, “hey, don’t treat me like that, that’s not okay,” to and they respect you enough to actually listen and consider whether you might have a point before launching straight into a defense or arguing or dismissing you.
Anybody you can’t say that to, anybody who makes you afraid to stand up for yourself like that, already doesn’t value you very much and has one foot out the door.
This is not a brand new revelation, but it’s been a long day, and boy does this feel crystal clear at this moment.
….oh.
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The people you want to keep in your life are the people you can say, “hey, don’t treat me like that, that’s not okay,” to and they respect you enough to actually listen and consider whether you might have a point before launching straight into a defense or arguing or dismissing you.
Anybody you can’t say that to, anybody who makes you afraid to stand up for yourself like that, already doesn’t value you very much and has one foot out the door.
This is not a brand new revelation, but it’s been a long day, and boy does this feel crystal clear at this moment.
….oh.
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