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Oct. 5th, 2014
melthemagpie:
when you’re reading porn and you can’t tell what position their bodies are supposed to be in and you’ve lost track of all limbs and you’re just
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when you’re reading porn and you can’t tell what position their bodies are supposed to be in and you’ve lost track of all limbs and you’re just
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About speech abilities
Oct. 5th, 2014 02:59 amrealsocialskills:
Some people can speak easily.
Some people always have difficulty speaking.
Some people never speak at all.
Some people can speak, but at a cost that’s not worth it.
Some people are better off communicating in other ways.
Some people speak sometimes, and type other times.
Some people have words all the time; some don’t.
Some people can speak fluidly, but only on certain topics. (Just like how one can be fluent in some topics in a foreign language, but be unable to read the news).
Some people lose speech at certain levels of stress.
Some people rely on hand movements and stimming in order to find words.
Some people have a monotone and convey tone through motion.
Some people make a lot of mistakes with words, and rely heavily on tone to make themselves understood.
Some people rely heavily on scripts, and only sound normal when they stay on-script.
Some people use phrases from television.
Some people communicate by repeating themselves, and tend to be perceived as not communicating.
Some people say a lot of words they don’t understand, and are perceived as having meant them.
Some people substitute one word for another a lot, and don’t always realize it.
Some people can answer questions even when they’re having trouble initiating speech.
Some people who find speech easy sound odd.
Some people who find speech difficult sound normal.
You don’t really know how someone communicates until you’ve communicated with them substantially, and even then, you only know in the context you’ve communicated in. Appearances can be deceiving.
And it’s important to be aware that all of these things exist.
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Some people can speak easily.
Some people always have difficulty speaking.
Some people never speak at all.
Some people can speak, but at a cost that’s not worth it.
Some people are better off communicating in other ways.
Some people speak sometimes, and type other times.
Some people have words all the time; some don’t.
Some people can speak fluidly, but only on certain topics. (Just like how one can be fluent in some topics in a foreign language, but be unable to read the news).
Some people lose speech at certain levels of stress.
Some people rely on hand movements and stimming in order to find words.
Some people have a monotone and convey tone through motion.
Some people make a lot of mistakes with words, and rely heavily on tone to make themselves understood.
Some people rely heavily on scripts, and only sound normal when they stay on-script.
Some people use phrases from television.
Some people communicate by repeating themselves, and tend to be perceived as not communicating.
Some people say a lot of words they don’t understand, and are perceived as having meant them.
Some people substitute one word for another a lot, and don’t always realize it.
Some people can answer questions even when they’re having trouble initiating speech.
Some people who find speech easy sound odd.
Some people who find speech difficult sound normal.
You don’t really know how someone communicates until you’ve communicated with them substantially, and even then, you only know in the context you’ve communicated in. Appearances can be deceiving.
And it’s important to be aware that all of these things exist.
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foxzes:
fakethistoyourgrave:
What’s the word for horny but not in a sexual way like I’m horny for Halloween but I don’t wanna fuck a pumpkin you feel
do u mean excited
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fakethistoyourgrave:
What’s the word for horny but not in a sexual way like I’m horny for Halloween but I don’t wanna fuck a pumpkin you feel
do u mean excited
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hallowkorg:
happy halloween. its fucking halloween every day from now until the end of october. happy fucking halloween
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happy halloween. its fucking halloween every day from now until the end of october. happy fucking halloween
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ao3 saved filters
Oct. 5th, 2014 06:26 amAdds fields for persistent global & fandom filters to works index pages on AO3
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little—librarian:
J made a rope machine, and makes his own rope now. He was kind enough to send some home with me. -ll 💋
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J made a rope machine, and makes his own rope now. He was kind enough to send some home with me. -ll 💋
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colffrey:
heyblaine:
then you make him horny and suddenly
#gentleman on the streets but a freak in the sheets (via crissblanderstan)
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heyblaine:
then you make him horny and suddenly
#gentleman on the streets but a freak in the sheets (via crissblanderstan)
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ddlgdoodles:
Wax play is wonderful! It gives the opportunity to turn your sub or bottom into your personal canvas and form them into a work of art. Through out the span of a few posts, I will be giving you the lowdown on wax play and hopefully others will chime in with their personal experience and advice.
Your tools of choice:
There are several types of candles out there, but the safest to start off with is paraffin. According to a post by Norische on The Iron Gate, here are the other candle types and their melting points:
Paraffin 120 – 145 degrees
Low temp wax 120 – 125 degrees
Standard jar candles 125 – 135 degrees
Standard pillar candles 135 – 140 degrees
Bee’s wax candles 140 – 155 degrees
Oil based candles 165 – 190 degrees
Gel jar candles 165 – 180 degrees
As mentioned above, paraffin’s melting point is at a safe range for beginners to start off with. Keep in mind that you’ll want to start off with a colorless wax just so you and your sub or bottom knows what it feels like. I’ll discuss this more in the next post in the series.
Colored waxes can increase the temperature of the wax slightly, especially if the wax is colored with paint and not dye. If you’d like to add some color and stay on the safe side, I’ve read that melting crayons with plain wax will do the job just fine and you can achieve this by using a crockpot.
Stay away from:
Scented candles - Save your expensive Yankee Candles to put around your room to enjoy in other ways.
Gel candles
Metallic colored candles
Wicks that are not string (cotton is normally used, I believe)
Anything made from animal fat
Painted candles
If you’re ever unsure of a candle’s make up, play it safe and don’t use it. You’re better off spending some money on candles that will make your experience pleasurable and not downright painful. There are plenty of adult sites (Edensfantasy, LoveHoney, etc.) that sells candles for sensation play and wax play, just be sure to read reviews before you purchase.
Sources used:
Kinkopedia
BDSMwaxplay by TenderDom
Candlelight Moments: Basics of Wax Play
Hot Wax
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Wax play is wonderful! It gives the opportunity to turn your sub or bottom into your personal canvas and form them into a work of art. Through out the span of a few posts, I will be giving you the lowdown on wax play and hopefully others will chime in with their personal experience and advice.
Your tools of choice:
There are several types of candles out there, but the safest to start off with is paraffin. According to a post by Norische on The Iron Gate, here are the other candle types and their melting points:
Paraffin 120 – 145 degrees
Low temp wax 120 – 125 degrees
Standard jar candles 125 – 135 degrees
Standard pillar candles 135 – 140 degrees
Bee’s wax candles 140 – 155 degrees
Oil based candles 165 – 190 degrees
Gel jar candles 165 – 180 degrees
As mentioned above, paraffin’s melting point is at a safe range for beginners to start off with. Keep in mind that you’ll want to start off with a colorless wax just so you and your sub or bottom knows what it feels like. I’ll discuss this more in the next post in the series.
Colored waxes can increase the temperature of the wax slightly, especially if the wax is colored with paint and not dye. If you’d like to add some color and stay on the safe side, I’ve read that melting crayons with plain wax will do the job just fine and you can achieve this by using a crockpot.
Stay away from:
Scented candles - Save your expensive Yankee Candles to put around your room to enjoy in other ways.
Gel candles
Metallic colored candles
Wicks that are not string (cotton is normally used, I believe)
Anything made from animal fat
Painted candles
If you’re ever unsure of a candle’s make up, play it safe and don’t use it. You’re better off spending some money on candles that will make your experience pleasurable and not downright painful. There are plenty of adult sites (Edensfantasy, LoveHoney, etc.) that sells candles for sensation play and wax play, just be sure to read reviews before you purchase.
Sources used:
Kinkopedia
BDSMwaxplay by TenderDom
Candlelight Moments: Basics of Wax Play
Hot Wax
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“Yes,” [Natasha] says. “It’s Dr Ross.” “And now you want to go find her and recruit her,” Clint says, just to get it out in the air. You have to admire Natasha, really. No matter what or who she runs into, she will obsessively hunt until she finds a way to neutralize them. And she’s good at thinking outside the box and knowing that “neutralize” doesn’t necessarily mean “kill, concuss or capture.”!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:theavengers, fandom:marvelcinematicuniverse, rating:teenandupaudiences, pairing:clint.barton/natasha.romanov, pairing:bruce.banner/betty.ross, pairing:pepper.potts/tony.stark, ~author:lalaietha, note:series, series/universe:marvel:toseeyouthere, character:natasha.romanov, character:betty.ross, character:clint.barton
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“Yes,” [Natasha] says. “It’s Dr Ross.” “And now you want to go find her and recruit her,” Clint says, just to get it out in the air. You have to admire Natasha, really. No matter what or who she runs into, she will obsessively hunt until she finds a way to neutralize them. And she’s good at thinking outside the box and knowing that “neutralize” doesn’t necessarily mean “kill, concuss or capture.”!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:theavengers, fandom:marvelcinematicuniverse, rating:teenandupaudiences, pairing:clint.barton/natasha.romanov, pairing:bruce.banner/betty.ross, pairing:pepper.potts/tony.stark, ~author:lalaietha, note:series, series/universe:marvel:toseeyouthere, character:natasha.romanov, character:betty.ross, character:clint.barton
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cyclopette:
bellpincher:
freeingeileen:
In honor of the first day of BFRB Awareness Week, I made a powerpoint of an overview of Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs). Keep in mind that this is just an overview.
As someone with trichotillomania I really want my followers to understand how important BFRB Awareness Week is to me. I have hardly seen any good informational posts about it other than this one which does a good job at generally describing BFRBs. Please read through these slides, visit the sources provided, and reblog to educate others and spread the word!
trich.org is so good, they sell lots of stuff to help you with trichotillomania, including cute spinner rings.
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bellpincher:
freeingeileen:
In honor of the first day of BFRB Awareness Week, I made a powerpoint of an overview of Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs). Keep in mind that this is just an overview.
As someone with trichotillomania I really want my followers to understand how important BFRB Awareness Week is to me. I have hardly seen any good informational posts about it other than this one which does a good job at generally describing BFRBs. Please read through these slides, visit the sources provided, and reblog to educate others and spread the word!
trich.org is so good, they sell lots of stuff to help you with trichotillomania, including cute spinner rings.
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Tumblr - Mass Post Features
Oct. 5th, 2014 02:53 pmMulti-select box, Queue or Drafts Edit, Select or Show by Tag or Type, Backdate, Caption, and more
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bridgemcgidge:
shercockandmycrotch:
everyone needs a waving snail on their blog
i feel that if I scroll past this and don’t reblog it the snail is going to look to the ground and cry
that comment
im sold
gotta do it now
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shercockandmycrotch:
everyone needs a waving snail on their blog
i feel that if I scroll past this and don’t reblog it the snail is going to look to the ground and cry
that comment
im sold
gotta do it now
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She has a point, and Clint considers it for a while before pointing out, “If someone manages to use you against me, I think we’re in deep enough shit that that much will kind of be like a bucket in a fucking shit ocean, Tasha.”!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:theavengers, fandom:marvelcinematicuniverse, rating:teenandupaudiences, pairing:clint.barton/natasha.romanov, ~author:lalaietha, note:drabble/ficlet, note:series, series/universe:marvel:toseeyouthere
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She has a point, and Clint considers it for a while before pointing out, “If someone manages to use you against me, I think we’re in deep enough shit that that much will kind of be like a bucket in a fucking shit ocean, Tasha.”!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:theavengers, fandom:marvelcinematicuniverse, rating:teenandupaudiences, pairing:clint.barton/natasha.romanov, ~author:lalaietha, note:drabble/ficlet, note:series, series/universe:marvel:toseeyouthere
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Benefits to having a best friend: someone you can talk to about anything, including the hot boy you’re dating, trashy Bravo television, and great sex. At least, that’s what Kurt and Blaine discover when their friendship evolves into friends with benefits. What could be better? AKA friends with benefits who fall in love. Notes: No heavy Kadam or Seblaine at all. In fact, Sebastian doesn’t even make an appearance other than reference. The long and the short of it is that I love Klaine and wanted to write them having lots of banter, sex, and learning about each other in new ways.!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:glee, rating:explicit, pairing:blaine.anderson/kurt.hummel, pairing:blaine.anderson/sebastian.smythe, pairing:adam.crawford/kurt.hummel, ~author:judearaya, awesome, note:series, series/universe:glee:theotherside, entertaining, trope:friends-with-benefits, genre:au, au:justalittledifferent
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Benefits to having a best friend: someone you can talk to about anything, including the hot boy you’re dating, trashy Bravo television, and great sex. At least, that’s what Kurt and Blaine discover when their friendship evolves into friends with benefits. What could be better? AKA friends with benefits who fall in love. Notes: No heavy Kadam or Seblaine at all. In fact, Sebastian doesn’t even make an appearance other than reference. The long and the short of it is that I love Klaine and wanted to write them having lots of banter, sex, and learning about each other in new ways.!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:glee, rating:explicit, pairing:blaine.anderson/kurt.hummel, pairing:blaine.anderson/sebastian.smythe, pairing:adam.crawford/kurt.hummel, ~author:judearaya, awesome, note:series, series/universe:glee:theotherside, entertaining, trope:friends-with-benefits, genre:au, au:justalittledifferent
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I don’t know what I’m doing. I pretend
Oct. 5th, 2014 07:41 pmI don’t know what I’m doing. I pretend like I do and I know how to act it out in song.
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It’s an email. It’s got nonsense Korean and it’s got the gibberish of html-errors and it’s got a bunch of incomprehensible English and if you translate it all and sort it out the most you can make of it is that it’s offering some kind of cheap deal on banking. The address of origin is a string of numbers and letters and so is the domain. It looks like spam.!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:marvelcinematicuniverse, rating:teenandupaudiences, pairing:clint.barton/natasha.romanov, ~author:lalaietha, note:series, series/universe:marvel:toseeyouthere, genre:episode-tag/missing-scene, captainamerica:thewintersoldier
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It’s an email. It’s got nonsense Korean and it’s got the gibberish of html-errors and it’s got a bunch of incomprehensible English and if you translate it all and sort it out the most you can make of it is that it’s offering some kind of cheap deal on banking. The address of origin is a string of numbers and letters and so is the domain. It looks like spam.!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:marvelcinematicuniverse, rating:teenandupaudiences, pairing:clint.barton/natasha.romanov, ~author:lalaietha, note:series, series/universe:marvel:toseeyouthere, genre:episode-tag/missing-scene, captainamerica:thewintersoldier
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kaijuborn:
Updated for 2014!
Movies:
Nightmare before ChristmasCorpse brideThe Addams familyThe Addams family valueSweeny ToddScooby DooScooby Doo 2Monsters Inc.Monsters UniversityBeetlejuiceGhostbustersGhostbusters IIParaNormanFrankenweenieSleepy HollowIt’s the great pumpkin, Charlie BrownDark ShadowsCasperUnder wrapsDon’t look under the bedMad monster partyThe worst witchHalloweentownHalloweentown IIYoung FrankensteinClueGremlinsPractical magicThe Rocky Horror Picture ShowHaunted mansionLittle vampireLittle NickyCoralineHotel TransylvaniaHocus Pocus
Shows and Halloween specials:
Ruby Gloom
Phineas and Ferb 1 | 2 | 3 | 4
Simpsons 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14 | 15 | 16 | 17 | 18 | 19 | 20 | 21 | 22 | 23 | 24 | 25Lilo and StitchAmerican Dragon: Jake LongKim PossibleDanny PhantomThat’s so RavenUnfabulousLizzie McGuireThe Proud FamilyHey Arnold!Ned’s declassifiedZoey 101
Recipes:
Iced pumpkin cookiesMini pumpkin swirl cheesecakesPerfect pumpkin pieNo bake spiderweb cheesecakeOrange and black cupcakesSpiderweb tutorial for cupcakes, cookies and browniesButterbeerButterbeer cupcakesCauldron cakesChocolate fudge cake with ghost maringuesFrankenstein marshmallow popsNo bake pumpkin spice cookie ballsCaramel apple cinnamon rollsThe ultimate Halloween spooktacular roundupPumpkin mousseOrange pumpkin pancakesHalloween candy buffetDIY Halloween candyCandy applesHomemade cotton candy25 sweet and salty Halloween snacks15 easy Halloween dessert recipesCandy corn fruit cupsMonster doll cookiesSpooky sweets for HalloweenHalloween cuisineJello wormsPumpkin chocolate chip barsChocolate spidersBrain cupcakesSpiderweb cupcakesPumpkin and ginger cheesecakeHoney pumpkin pieButternut pumpkin piesBloody floatsScaredy crackersHalloween candy made easyPopcorn balls64 non candy snack ideasOoey gooey monster eye cookiesSpooky Halloween spiritsGhoulishly Glowing cupcakesFrightful fruit kebabsPoison toffee apples
Playlists:
RocktoberDevil’s swingCome little childrenUp after midnightDid you hear that?ManhuntBilly where are you, Billy? Is that you?EVERYBODY SCREAM!The chillsCreepy songsSpooky tunesDouble, double, toil & trubbleDance around the fireIndie horrorNoctuaryCarnival cabaretIt’s too quietHalloween fanmix vol. 1Halloween fanmix vol. 2WitchesLight the torchesThrillerConversations with ghostsBad moon rising
Decorations & costumes:
DIY pumpkin candlesIndoors Halloween decoration30 DIY decorations for HalloweenCanning jar lid pumpkinDecorating with autumn leavesCheap Halloween decorationsBest Halloween decorationsHalloween crafts for kidsQuick and inexpensive Halloween decorationsLast minute skeleton costumesLast minute Wednesday Addams costumeSilent film stars costumesUmbrella bat costumeQuick costumes for kids60 fall decorating ideasFancy napkin decor11 enchanting Halloween decorating ideasNo carve pumpkin decoratingHaunting homemade Halloween decorationsDIY Halloween decorationsHomemade Halloween decorationsHow to make styrofoam tombstones40 easy to make Halloween decorsOrigami batsSpooky jars80s makeup tutorialEasy DIY Halloween costume ideasSparkly mermaid makeup tutorialLioness makeup tutorialCorpse paint tutorialCartoon lips1920s flapper lookEasy Halloween craftsSpider Queen makeup tutorialSally (Nightmare before Christmas) makeup tutorialSkull makeup tutorial
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Updated for 2014!
Movies:
Nightmare before ChristmasCorpse brideThe Addams familyThe Addams family valueSweeny ToddScooby DooScooby Doo 2Monsters Inc.Monsters UniversityBeetlejuiceGhostbustersGhostbusters IIParaNormanFrankenweenieSleepy HollowIt’s the great pumpkin, Charlie BrownDark ShadowsCasperUnder wrapsDon’t look under the bedMad monster partyThe worst witchHalloweentownHalloweentown IIYoung FrankensteinClueGremlinsPractical magicThe Rocky Horror Picture ShowHaunted mansionLittle vampireLittle NickyCoralineHotel TransylvaniaHocus Pocus
Shows and Halloween specials:
Ruby Gloom
Phineas and Ferb 1 | 2 | 3 | 4
Simpsons 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14 | 15 | 16 | 17 | 18 | 19 | 20 | 21 | 22 | 23 | 24 | 25Lilo and StitchAmerican Dragon: Jake LongKim PossibleDanny PhantomThat’s so RavenUnfabulousLizzie McGuireThe Proud FamilyHey Arnold!Ned’s declassifiedZoey 101
Recipes:
Iced pumpkin cookiesMini pumpkin swirl cheesecakesPerfect pumpkin pieNo bake spiderweb cheesecakeOrange and black cupcakesSpiderweb tutorial for cupcakes, cookies and browniesButterbeerButterbeer cupcakesCauldron cakesChocolate fudge cake with ghost maringuesFrankenstein marshmallow popsNo bake pumpkin spice cookie ballsCaramel apple cinnamon rollsThe ultimate Halloween spooktacular roundupPumpkin mousseOrange pumpkin pancakesHalloween candy buffetDIY Halloween candyCandy applesHomemade cotton candy25 sweet and salty Halloween snacks15 easy Halloween dessert recipesCandy corn fruit cupsMonster doll cookiesSpooky sweets for HalloweenHalloween cuisineJello wormsPumpkin chocolate chip barsChocolate spidersBrain cupcakesSpiderweb cupcakesPumpkin and ginger cheesecakeHoney pumpkin pieButternut pumpkin piesBloody floatsScaredy crackersHalloween candy made easyPopcorn balls64 non candy snack ideasOoey gooey monster eye cookiesSpooky Halloween spiritsGhoulishly Glowing cupcakesFrightful fruit kebabsPoison toffee apples
Playlists:
RocktoberDevil’s swingCome little childrenUp after midnightDid you hear that?ManhuntBilly where are you, Billy? Is that you?EVERYBODY SCREAM!The chillsCreepy songsSpooky tunesDouble, double, toil & trubbleDance around the fireIndie horrorNoctuaryCarnival cabaretIt’s too quietHalloween fanmix vol. 1Halloween fanmix vol. 2WitchesLight the torchesThrillerConversations with ghostsBad moon rising
Decorations & costumes:
DIY pumpkin candlesIndoors Halloween decoration30 DIY decorations for HalloweenCanning jar lid pumpkinDecorating with autumn leavesCheap Halloween decorationsBest Halloween decorationsHalloween crafts for kidsQuick and inexpensive Halloween decorationsLast minute skeleton costumesLast minute Wednesday Addams costumeSilent film stars costumesUmbrella bat costumeQuick costumes for kids60 fall decorating ideasFancy napkin decor11 enchanting Halloween decorating ideasNo carve pumpkin decoratingHaunting homemade Halloween decorationsDIY Halloween decorationsHomemade Halloween decorationsHow to make styrofoam tombstones40 easy to make Halloween decorsOrigami batsSpooky jars80s makeup tutorialEasy DIY Halloween costume ideasSparkly mermaid makeup tutorialLioness makeup tutorialCorpse paint tutorialCartoon lips1920s flapper lookEasy Halloween craftsSpider Queen makeup tutorialSally (Nightmare before Christmas) makeup tutorialSkull makeup tutorial
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softerworld:
A Softer World: 1127
(it’s the little things that keep us going. like violence)
buy this print
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A Softer World: 1127
(it’s the little things that keep us going. like violence)
buy this print
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