Jul. 29th, 2014
underthenerdhood:
a little girl who grows up thinking all doors are automatic but actually she’s haunted by a really polite ghost
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a little girl who grows up thinking all doors are automatic but actually she’s haunted by a really polite ghost
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happybdsm:
lacy-lane:
I’d be smiling too
Model Danailya (fet)
Rigger-Dukka- (fet)
Edited to add credits (thank you to yearoftheflood!).
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lacy-lane:
I’d be smiling too
Model Danailya (fet)
Rigger-Dukka- (fet)
Edited to add credits (thank you to yearoftheflood!).
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Carlos is having the strangest dreams, and the strangest headaches, like there’s something he’s supposed to be remembering. Not to mention the intern’s wedding coming up, and that new chemical StrexCorp wants him to develop. It’s going to be a busy week.!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:welcometonightvale, rating:teenandupaudiences, pairing:carlos/cecil.(welcome.to.night.vale), ~author:indigostohelit, warning:other/unspecified, warning:consent-issues, trope:amnesia
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Carlos is having the strangest dreams, and the strangest headaches, like there’s something he’s supposed to be remembering. Not to mention the intern’s wedding coming up, and that new chemical StrexCorp wants him to develop. It’s going to be a busy week.!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:welcometonightvale, rating:teenandupaudiences, pairing:carlos/cecil.(welcome.to.night.vale), ~author:indigostohelit, warning:other/unspecified, warning:consent-issues, trope:amnesia
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you know how your mom always told you not to rub your eyes when they were itching, self?
turns out there’s a reason for that!
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turns out there’s a reason for that!
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lol I subscribe to the ‘aftercare’ tag
Jul. 29th, 2014 10:31 amlol I subscribe to the ‘aftercare’ tag on pinboard which is usually pretty quiet but every so often something related to horse racing gets posted and it always takes me a minute to parse.
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luckyjak:
New favorite headcanon:
Blaine Anderson is a 1950s boy who fell through a rift in time, and ended up in the 2000s. The America branch of Torchwood took him, gave him a new identity and a home, and enrolled him in boarding school to keep him out of trouble.
He’s adapted pretty well so far—his favorite thing is that he can admit out loud that HE’S GAY HE LIKES BOY oh gosh that feels good~
and he wants to get married like yesterday because GOODNESS GRACIOUS KURT HE’S TWENTY DO YOU WANT HIM TO BE AN OLD MAID
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New favorite headcanon:
Blaine Anderson is a 1950s boy who fell through a rift in time, and ended up in the 2000s. The America branch of Torchwood took him, gave him a new identity and a home, and enrolled him in boarding school to keep him out of trouble.
He’s adapted pretty well so far—his favorite thing is that he can admit out loud that HE’S GAY HE LIKES BOY oh gosh that feels good~
and he wants to get married like yesterday because GOODNESS GRACIOUS KURT HE’S TWENTY DO YOU WANT HIM TO BE AN OLD MAID
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I would feel worse about the fact that I am pretty much getting nothing done if my EYES WEREN’T SO ITCHY AND WATERY AND OUCHITY
I’m wondering if like, I’m allergic to something.
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I’m wondering if like, I’m allergic to something.
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cutegayboysex replied to your post:you know how your mom always told you not to rub…
my mom never told me that and she is an optometrist. i will yell at her for not giving me this life advice that’s right up her alley in the morning.
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my mom never told me that and she is an optometrist. i will yell at her for not giving me this life advice that’s right up her alley in the morning.
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and because my parents NEVER ANSWER THEIR PHONES i can’t even bug my mom for mom-‘vice about what doooooo
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any. er. moms in the crowd? or. you know. adults with practice adulting?
HOW DO I MAKE THE ITCHY WATERY EYES STOP???
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HOW DO I MAKE THE ITCHY WATERY EYES STOP???
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newleasemylove replied to your post:any. er. moms in the crowd? or. you know. adults…
Can you get to a pharmacy? If you can either antihistamine tablets or allergy eye drops might help (if not just rinse them with water)
I think I have benadryl. I’ll go look for that. I’d assumed this was just from rubbing my eyes too much yesterday but that doesn’t explain the congested feel.
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Can you get to a pharmacy? If you can either antihistamine tablets or allergy eye drops might help (if not just rinse them with water)
I think I have benadryl. I’ll go look for that. I’d assumed this was just from rubbing my eyes too much yesterday but that doesn’t explain the congested feel.
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sweetlittlewallflower:
ropemagic:
“BEAUTIFUL CREATURE" via ROPE MAGiC
feat. Mitsuca
“The world is quiet here.” ― Lemony Snicket
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ropemagic:
“BEAUTIFUL CREATURE" via ROPE MAGiC
feat. Mitsuca
“The world is quiet here.” ― Lemony Snicket
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since I feel a good 30% better now after having taken some benadryl I am going to go ahead and say that this is probably allergies fucking with me.
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new med, I cannot tell if you are working at all or not because my head feels awful and it’s fucking with my ability to function and care so it’s really hard to judge what’s a physical symptom and what’s a depression symptom.
I will hold out hope, however! this is just your first day! and we don’t even go to the full dose for another week!
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I will hold out hope, however! this is just your first day! and we don’t even go to the full dose for another week!
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help/signal boost please
Jul. 29th, 2014 01:43 pmjudearaya:
Ok, so guys I want to clarify something and ask for help.
This instagram account is re-blogging fan art without crediting, and tagging Chris and Darren, which is something I DO NOT condone. I don’t agree with art/fic being re-blogged without crediting the artists and a *REALLY* disagree with them tagging actors who have expressed discomfort with RPF fic/art featuring them.
What really upsets me though is that they’ve linked to my Livejournal in their profile. They linked to a story I thought I’d taken down that I am really uncomfortable with. I’ve deleted it (although I thought I had?? That’s totally my fail), but I want to clarify that THIS IS NOT MY ACCOUNT. I am in NO WAY affiliated with them. Anyone who is following (they have almost 2k folowers), please know that this is NOT MY INSTAGRAM in any way. An artist contacted me thinking this was my account, asking me to delete their art because they weren’t credited and felt that their art was being stolen. Obviously we worked it out when we talked and I clarified that it wasn’t my account. If there are any other artists whose art has been posted, I encourage you to report this account. Honestly I’m going to encourage anyone to do it.
And that is the end of my angry rant. Please reblog and signal boost this post if you are up for it, because I really want people to know I have nothing to do with this AND I strongly disagree with posting art and not crediting AND tagging the actors, which I honestly find reprehensible and gross.
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Ok, so guys I want to clarify something and ask for help.
This instagram account is re-blogging fan art without crediting, and tagging Chris and Darren, which is something I DO NOT condone. I don’t agree with art/fic being re-blogged without crediting the artists and a *REALLY* disagree with them tagging actors who have expressed discomfort with RPF fic/art featuring them.
What really upsets me though is that they’ve linked to my Livejournal in their profile. They linked to a story I thought I’d taken down that I am really uncomfortable with. I’ve deleted it (although I thought I had?? That’s totally my fail), but I want to clarify that THIS IS NOT MY ACCOUNT. I am in NO WAY affiliated with them. Anyone who is following (they have almost 2k folowers), please know that this is NOT MY INSTAGRAM in any way. An artist contacted me thinking this was my account, asking me to delete their art because they weren’t credited and felt that their art was being stolen. Obviously we worked it out when we talked and I clarified that it wasn’t my account. If there are any other artists whose art has been posted, I encourage you to report this account. Honestly I’m going to encourage anyone to do it.
And that is the end of my angry rant. Please reblog and signal boost this post if you are up for it, because I really want people to know I have nothing to do with this AND I strongly disagree with posting art and not crediting AND tagging the actors, which I honestly find reprehensible and gross.
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judearaya:
knittywriter:
sunshunes:
animateglee:
So again, in case you’ve missed earlier posts, there’s this person reposting fan art and photo edits and manips on their IG and tagging Darren and Chris and pretending to own a lj account that isn’t theirs either and so basically we should go and report them and/or tell them to stop this immediately. Makes me want to stop drawing fan art altogether, ffs.
WHAT
How dare you? In particular these drawings?!!
I’m also going to tag
judearaya
in this, because it’s her LJ they are falsely linking to & she should know about it. (Man, this is almost making me want to get an Instagram account, just so I could give that person a piece of my mind…)
oh hey, I missed that this is already floating around! Two posts works for me. Because I am SO ANGRY THAT THEY ARE LINKING TO MY ACCOUNT.
like, ffs, why me?
I am getting all turned around trying to figure out the reporting system on instagram so if someone could give me step-by-step instructions that would be great! if not, just. report them yourselves and continue to signal boost? not on.
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knittywriter:
sunshunes:
animateglee:
So again, in case you’ve missed earlier posts, there’s this person reposting fan art and photo edits and manips on their IG and tagging Darren and Chris and pretending to own a lj account that isn’t theirs either and so basically we should go and report them and/or tell them to stop this immediately. Makes me want to stop drawing fan art altogether, ffs.
WHAT
How dare you? In particular these drawings?!!
I’m also going to tag
judearaya
in this, because it’s her LJ they are falsely linking to & she should know about it. (Man, this is almost making me want to get an Instagram account, just so I could give that person a piece of my mind…)
oh hey, I missed that this is already floating around! Two posts works for me. Because I am SO ANGRY THAT THEY ARE LINKING TO MY ACCOUNT.
like, ffs, why me?
I am getting all turned around trying to figure out the reporting system on instagram so if someone could give me step-by-step instructions that would be great! if not, just. report them yourselves and continue to signal boost? not on.
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(and yes, that last post does indeed mean I made motherfucking buffalo mash today. which involves SEVEN ingredients and at least TWO dishes, one of which is a POT. that gets used on a STOVE.)
(that’s right, motherfuckers. who’s high functioning NOW???)
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(that’s right, motherfuckers. who’s high functioning NOW???)
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honestly the best and longest-lasting thing I ever got from my alma mater was the concept of buffalo mash
like, BA in English, whatever. dime a dozen.
buffalo mash is forever.
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like, BA in English, whatever. dime a dozen.
buffalo mash is forever.
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I really do enjoy kingdom of loathing but god is it FRUSTRATING not having ENDS to things. or any sort of structure. like. WHAT DO?
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newleasemylove replied to your post:honestly the best and longest-lasting thing I ever…
I legit just started singing “what do you do with a BA in English?”
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I legit just started singing “what do you do with a BA in English?”
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schmergo:
I want a movie about a kid who just so happens to be born a Classic Gothic Hero, but in modern day. His name would be like Byron Dangerfield or something.
Whenever he has EMOTIONS, there are claps of thunder and lightning. Every time he leans against a piece of furniture, it turns out to open a secret passageway leading to some dark secret, until eventually he’s just like “REALLY, GUYS?” All bad dreams are prophetic, even if it’s just that Starbucks will be out of pumpkin spice syrup the next day. Every girl he talks to swoons a lot and has a tyrannical heavy-browed father who are all played by the same actor. Ravens flock around him.
There are inexplicably paintings with moving eyes and moving suits of armor everywhere he goes, even McDonalds. Every time he moves to a new apartment, there is ALWAYS a screaming woman chained up in the room above his, and she invariably sets the place on fire. He’s so over it.
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I want a movie about a kid who just so happens to be born a Classic Gothic Hero, but in modern day. His name would be like Byron Dangerfield or something.
Whenever he has EMOTIONS, there are claps of thunder and lightning. Every time he leans against a piece of furniture, it turns out to open a secret passageway leading to some dark secret, until eventually he’s just like “REALLY, GUYS?” All bad dreams are prophetic, even if it’s just that Starbucks will be out of pumpkin spice syrup the next day. Every girl he talks to swoons a lot and has a tyrannical heavy-browed father who are all played by the same actor. Ravens flock around him.
There are inexplicably paintings with moving eyes and moving suits of armor everywhere he goes, even McDonalds. Every time he moves to a new apartment, there is ALWAYS a screaming woman chained up in the room above his, and she invariably sets the place on fire. He’s so over it.
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bondagestuff:
tugonmyleash:
Pretty, flexible boy.
I’d say pretty flexible. Very good ropework!
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tugonmyleash:
Pretty, flexible boy.
I’d say pretty flexible. Very good ropework!
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The Winter Soldier takes an interest in Sam Wilson. Bucky Barnes wants to tell him how to be Steve Rogers’s best friend.!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:theavengers, fandom:captainamerica, rating:notrated, pairing:james.”bucky”.barnes/steve.rogers, ~author:ifeelbetter, genre:gen, character:sam.wilson, trope:outside!pov
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The Winter Soldier takes an interest in Sam Wilson. Bucky Barnes wants to tell him how to be Steve Rogers’s best friend.!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:theavengers, fandom:captainamerica, rating:notrated, pairing:james.”bucky”.barnes/steve.rogers, ~author:ifeelbetter, genre:gen, character:sam.wilson, trope:outside!pov
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tordles:
ruineshumaines:
Daisy by Ben Torode.
reblogging the source because omg this guy’s photography is gorgeous
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ruineshumaines:
Daisy by Ben Torode.
reblogging the source because omg this guy’s photography is gorgeous
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I’ve been thinking about this a lot and while I don’t think this will be a comprehensive list, I’ll try. Often emotions will manifest as one or more interoceptive (physical) sensations and interoceptive sensations can be confused for emotions (especially anxiety or nervousness). Here are some ways to identify both that I’ve found helpful.
Common interoceptive sensations:
Am I hungry? Signs: stomach pain/nausea, stomach making noises, irritable, tired, lightheaded, headache, trouble focusing, more than a few hours since last food intake
Am I dehydrated? Signs: persistent thirst, dry mouth/tongue, dry eyes, worsening headache, physically sluggish, dizziness, very yellow urine
Do I need to sleep? Signs: trouble focusing, frequent yawning, decreased alertness, memory problems, irritable, muscle soreness/discomfort, eyelids feel heavy, headache, slurred speech, decreased coordination, whole body tremors, dizziness, blurred vision, hallucinations [some of these are extreme effects, i.e. you haven’t slept for more than 24 hours]
Am I cold? Signs: whole body shivering, fingers or toes noticeably cold when touched to thigh or abdomen skin, teeth chattering, bluish tint around lips, numbness or tingling in fingers or toes
Am I hot? Signs: sweaty or clammy skin, red/flushed skin - especially of the face, ears, neck or upper chest, lightheaded, prickly or itchy skin (with or without red bumps), headache, muscle cramps, nausea, confusion [those last few are really serious - seek medical attention/cool off immediately]
Do I need to use the bathroom? Signs: pressure or pain in the lower abdomen, cramping, gas, feeling more comfortable when curled in the fetal position than stretched out flat
Common emotions and how to identify them:
Am I anxious? Anxiety is usually future-related. What’s going to happen in my short or long term future that I might be scared or nervous about? Is there anything new or out of the ordinary? Is something changing? Have new expectations been placed on me? Do I feel like there is something I need to avoid, even if that means doing something out of character or drastic?
Am I sad? Sadness is usually related to loss. Have I lost or am I losing something important to me? Is a part of me that I like going away or changing? Is something coming to an end? Do I feel like crying or withdrawing?
Am I happy? Happiness is usually related to fulfillment. Have I gotten something that I wished for or wanted? Has someone done something for me or given me something? Am I reaching a goal or milestone soon? [Note: happiness can sometimes feel like anxiety or be mixed with anxiety if it’s too intense.]
Am I angry? Anger is usually related to violation. Has someone done something that violates my beliefs, rights, trust or property? Has someone taken something from me or damaged something that I value? Do I feel like lashing out physically or verbally at someone?
Am I afraid? Fear is usually related to preserving safety. Am I in danger emotionally, physically, socially or mentally? Do I feel like fleeing or hiding? Is there a person in my life who I try to avoid being around? Am I engaging in behavior that carries a high risk of injury or self-harm? Is my future uncertain in ways that I’m not sure I can handle?
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Like I said, this is really first draft-y and rough but hopefully it’s a start. What works for me might be different than what works for you.
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Common interoceptive sensations:
Am I hungry? Signs: stomach pain/nausea, stomach making noises, irritable, tired, lightheaded, headache, trouble focusing, more than a few hours since last food intake
Am I dehydrated? Signs: persistent thirst, dry mouth/tongue, dry eyes, worsening headache, physically sluggish, dizziness, very yellow urine
Do I need to sleep? Signs: trouble focusing, frequent yawning, decreased alertness, memory problems, irritable, muscle soreness/discomfort, eyelids feel heavy, headache, slurred speech, decreased coordination, whole body tremors, dizziness, blurred vision, hallucinations [some of these are extreme effects, i.e. you haven’t slept for more than 24 hours]
Am I cold? Signs: whole body shivering, fingers or toes noticeably cold when touched to thigh or abdomen skin, teeth chattering, bluish tint around lips, numbness or tingling in fingers or toes
Am I hot? Signs: sweaty or clammy skin, red/flushed skin - especially of the face, ears, neck or upper chest, lightheaded, prickly or itchy skin (with or without red bumps), headache, muscle cramps, nausea, confusion [those last few are really serious - seek medical attention/cool off immediately]
Do I need to use the bathroom? Signs: pressure or pain in the lower abdomen, cramping, gas, feeling more comfortable when curled in the fetal position than stretched out flat
Common emotions and how to identify them:
Am I anxious? Anxiety is usually future-related. What’s going to happen in my short or long term future that I might be scared or nervous about? Is there anything new or out of the ordinary? Is something changing? Have new expectations been placed on me? Do I feel like there is something I need to avoid, even if that means doing something out of character or drastic?
Am I sad? Sadness is usually related to loss. Have I lost or am I losing something important to me? Is a part of me that I like going away or changing? Is something coming to an end? Do I feel like crying or withdrawing?
Am I happy? Happiness is usually related to fulfillment. Have I gotten something that I wished for or wanted? Has someone done something for me or given me something? Am I reaching a goal or milestone soon? [Note: happiness can sometimes feel like anxiety or be mixed with anxiety if it’s too intense.]
Am I angry? Anger is usually related to violation. Has someone done something that violates my beliefs, rights, trust or property? Has someone taken something from me or damaged something that I value? Do I feel like lashing out physically or verbally at someone?
Am I afraid? Fear is usually related to preserving safety. Am I in danger emotionally, physically, socially or mentally? Do I feel like fleeing or hiding? Is there a person in my life who I try to avoid being around? Am I engaging in behavior that carries a high risk of injury or self-harm? Is my future uncertain in ways that I’m not sure I can handle?
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Like I said, this is really first draft-y and rough but hopefully it’s a start. What works for me might be different than what works for you.
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